Posts filed under: Self Improvement

In The Pleasured Life Membership, this month our theme is Empower. Empower yourself and others to reach with kindness. Empowerment is a big word. Try it. Say the word. Say Empowered. To be empowered, to say empowered, brings up feelings...
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I’m doing it!! Actually doing it! I sort of don’t want to say that I’m doing it. Or share it with very many, because then it gets weird and given my history there’s a pressure. A expectation. I just puked...
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Over the course of the last couple of weeks, I can’t believe how many times I have heard this, “I saw myself in a picture and I was horrified!” “My arms were huge. My gut looked large. I’m never wearing...
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I do. It’s because I want it too. And now I know how to get it. And I also know, that there is only one way to do it. By way of the relationships in my life, I want relationships...
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It’s 24 years ago today that I said, “I do.” “Shit. We have been through a lot in 24 years.” Yep. At 18, and pregnant, I’m not sure folks held out for a very ‘successful’ outcome to our nuptials on...
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‘You look so happy and healthy!’ was the comment from my friend when I posted this picture on my social platforms Friday. ‘I am!’ was my response. But I’ve spent all weekend lamenting that comment. Because I think I need...
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Authenticity, integrity, real….all commonly used buzzwords in circles of self improvement and discovery. I’m trying to be my most authentic self. I’m looking to create relationship with real people. Integrity is very important to me.   Being my authentic self...
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There’s a part of me that wishes this personality trait would have been more developed about 30 years ago, but then I have come to understand that things happen for me when they are supposed to and so, I try...
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I’m having an affair. Rekindled really. It’s been going on for a while now. The way it makes me feel. Close my eyes and…deep breath It’s created an oral fixation. But I also love the way it feels in my...
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I need to riff. Truth: I used to think that I needed to be a ‘hard core b*tch” In fact, I’ve been called that, out loud, in both endearing, well loved spaces and those not quite so much. In order...
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